Strap on: Women buckling up their dominance

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Strap-Ons for his pleasure

If we had to guess, we’d say a strap-on is the one thing your sex life might be missing. Dive into the world of straight men who enjoy taking it from behind!  

Why would ladies settle for a dildo in their hands when they can have junk in their trunk?! Strap-ons are sex aids that transcend the status of ordinary sex toys. Like with many products for adults, its main goal is to provide pleasure, but it has a unique twist. It’s women who use it dominantly because it changes the rules of the game. Strap-ons have the unique ability to switch the gender roles in the bedroom.

This accessory with a bit extra certainly started as a sex toy for lesbian couples, but it has grown in popularity with straight sexual partners. Don’t be intimidated by this penetrative sex aid, as it can spice up your sex life regardless of whether you’re a girl or a man. Find out more about strap-ons. Maybe it is just the thing you’ve been missing.

What exactly is a Strap-On?

Though they come in all shapes and sizes, the general principle is the same — strap-ons are sex aids that consist of two main parts. The first element would be a penis-like dildo or any form of a penetrative object. The second part is a clothing accessory (simple straps, belts, even underwear, and pants). The dildo is secured onto the clothing items, so when a person wears it around their waist and groin, they get to have an artificial dick.

The fact that you can wear a strap-on makes all the difference. Otherwise, you would have an ordinary dildo. The unique benefit of this sex aid is that it enables women to get into a role that generally men have. That is, they get to penetrate and fuck their partners. Certain models have removable strap-on dildos, so partners can experiment with various toys. Still, the concept is the same — with a strap-on, she is wearing the pants in the bedroom.

Women taking the lead

There are many ways a frisky lady can become a more active player in the bedroom. She can instigate sex, be on top, give instructions, etc. But having a strap-on is another level of power play. Of course, with great power comes great responsibility. It’s not a thing of sticking it to the man. It’s more about giving him pleasure. Though sometimes that pleasure can be gentle and sometimes quite rough.

You are enabling your partner to feel the joys of penetrative anal sex. You can stimulate his sphincter and dictate the tempo and roughness while he gives in to the experience. With the appropriate shape of the dildo and the right position, you can stimulate his prostate, and then you can really rock his world. Eventually, your hips will take him to orgasmic heights, and he’ll be coming back for more.

Can’t you do the same with an ordinary dildo? Yes, but a strap-on is more inclusive. With an anal toy, it’s your hand that does all the work, while the other parts tend to be inactive. By wearing your strap-on, you have to use your entire body. It certainly can be more physically demanding, but it is more fun and rewarding. You create a greater level of interaction, and you get to have a more intimate body contact.

What do men feel about it?

Not everyone enjoys anal sex. If it’s not for you, that’s perfectly ok. Nevertheless, people who do like anal play get to derive additional pleasure from sex, and they can experience new orgasmic sensations. Some even prefer it to everything else. So why should women be the only ones who get to have it?! Many men are open to butt play, especially as it can be pleasurable and fulfilling and it can lead to prostatic orgasms.

And so, strap-ons have entered the bedroom! Men can be in a straight, loving relationship and still experience sensual anal stimulation. Their sexy lady can slide her strap-on dildo into his ass and pleasure the sphincter. The anus is filled with delicate nerve endings, which makes it a playing field for titillating excitement. Beginners shouldn’t be put off by this unexplored region, and it might take some time to get used to new sensations.

The next level of anal play would mean prostate massage, and o boy, will he get to feel fireworks. The anal cavity has a so-called P-spot, a special lump that enables the stimulation of the prostate gland. This little fellow produces seminal fluid and controls ejaculation. If you tamper with it, he’ll cum usually, pretty hard. In the end, a woman with a strap-on may give him a greater orgasm than with vanilla sex.

Men feel better when women are in charge

Having to submit to societal norms of domineering macho-man can be stifling. This way, men miss out on many fun things, and sex can become repetitive. By mixing it up and changing the sex roles, you can spice up your bedroom session. If a man is open to trying anal play while his girl is wearing a strap-on dildo, he is showing the incentive that he is willing to experiment.

Men can discover new steamy horizons by letting her be in control, while women are able to explore new erotic roles and phantasies. If you reverse your roles, a new perspective can bring some hot insights into your fuck session. Consequently, you’ve seen how it feels to be in giving and taking positions, and you can understand each other’s desires more deeply. Who knew such erotic potential was hiding in strap-on dildos?!

Women’s supremacy

Strap-ons are sexual aids, and as such, it’s up to their users what they symbolize. If your lady is giving it to you anally, that can be an act of tender, sweet love-making. Still, women in strap-ons undoubtedly give off a dominant vibe. No wonder so many dominatrix mistresses play with this sex accessory. And many couples who go into sub/Dom play eventually try pegging.

A large majority of men would seem hesitant to try taking it from their girl. Generally, they see it as an act of humiliation. So no wonder a submissive guy would find it highly enticing. A dominatrix lady may choose to put on a strap-on to ravish her sub, and thus completing the act of ultimate domination.

Men and women mutual understanding

The first step of entering into any kink is communication. You need to be very clear with your partner about your fantasies. You have to verbalize what you want and what your expectations are. Give yourself time and ample room to make mistakes. At first, go slowly and then feel whether things are developing the way you like it. If it works, great! God for you! Figuring out your sexual pleasures is the best part of life.

Don’t be afraid to pull the break. If you don’t like the feel of the strap-on, and it makes you uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to say so. Your enthusiastic partner might not be thrilled about it, but the name of the game is communication and understanding. As a guy, you may not like anal play, and as a girl, you may not like being active. But hey — you tried.